Celebrate non-scale wins to build intrinsic motivation
Acknowledging progress beyond numbers — energy, mood, consistency, confidence — builds the intrinsic motivation that sustains long-term behaviour change.
Why this matters
When health outcomes become the only measure of success, clients are at the mercy of factors they can't fully control — genetics, stress, hormones, water retention. Weeks with no movement on the scale feel like failure, even when the client has been consistent and building excellent habits.
Celebrating non-scale wins (NSWs) refocuses attention on process and identity, which are far more predictive of long-term success. Research on self-determination theory shows that intrinsic motivation (enjoyment, meaning, identity) is far more durable than extrinsic motivation (numbers, external validation).
In practice
Client is frustrated after four weeks with no weight loss. Coach: "Let's look at what else has changed. You've gone to four sessions when you used to go to zero. You said your energy in the mornings is better. And last week you told me you chose salad at lunch without thinking about it. Those are your real wins." Client's demeanour visibly changes. Focus shifts from discouragement to evidence of real change.
Source: Ryan, R.M. & Deci, E.L. (2017). Self-Determination Theory: Basic Psychological Needs in Motivation, Development, and Wellness. Guilford Press.
Try it today
In your next check-in with a client, before you discuss any outcome metrics, ask: "What's one thing that's gone well this week that isn't about a number?" Make a note and bring it up the following week.
Make it a habit
Create a "wins board" (digital or physical) for each client where non-scale wins are recorded alongside outcomes. Review it together at monthly check-ins.
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